In production · Spring 2026

For the couch, the drive, the third year and the thirtieth.

Two hundred questions for two people who already know each other — which is the hard part. Warm, occasionally uncomfortable, never a workbook and never a quiz about your love language.

One email, the week it ships. Nothing else, ever.

What makes it different

Same ten categories. Completely different deck.

The color system carries over so it plays with anything else you own. The questions don’t.

  1. 01

    Not therapy homework

    No scoring, no exercises, no “now discuss your attachment style.” Questions you’d actually ask on a good night out.

  2. 02

    Safe to open cold

    Roughly half the deck is light enough for a Tuesday. The heavier third is marked, so nobody gets ambushed.

  3. 03

    Built for repetition

    You will answer the same card differently in year three and year eleven. That’s the point.

Four cards from the deck

A sample, not the good ones.

We’re keeping the best cards for the box.

Speak Life

What did I do this month that you noticed and never mentioned?

Dreams

What would we do with a free year, starting Monday?

Insight

What’s something you’ve stopped needing from me?

Hot Takes

Overrated or underrated: separate blankets. Go.