Field guide

Running a deck at a holiday table with people who don’t agree

Twelve people, four opinions, one turkey. Which categories to pull, which to leave in the box, and when to end it.

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This guide is outlined but not written. Read the car-ride guide in the meantime — it’s the finished template for all of these.

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